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I haven’t been writing much lately. I’ve got a couple of drafts that show I’ve tried starting something, but ultimately they never do leave the draft box. Part of that reason is because it’s become harder to express myself through writing now, and it may have been due to the fact that I just haven’t been writing enough as an exercise to maintain that flow I once had. But also, I’ve discovered other interesting mediums to express myself, such as photography and expanding my musical ambitions. I’ve also come to have a better grasp of myself emotionally, which was one of the main reasons why I blogged as often as I did. I didn’t have much of an outlet for what I was feeling, and these past few years I’ve been able to get a better handle of the kind of person I am, and knowing how to better harness my emotions. When you get older, some things get easier I suppose.

But getting older is something I’ve been trying to come to grips with lately. I turned 30 not too long ago. Age never really bothered me these past few years. I still felt youthful, and in a way I still do, but I stop to look around, things feel vastly different than years past. It feels as if the world is moving without me, that this new post-millennial generation has begun taking over this struggle I – and others in my age – once had. I feel overlooked at times due to my age. My fear is finding out that my identity was tied to my youth. For some time, I yearned for the days where the need to ‘fight it out’ would come to an end, but when I grow old, if the fight is over, what is left?

However, the one thing I can appreciate about being old is the fact that I am much more certain as a person. In many ways, I’ve become bolder, more sure of my actions and beliefs, and despite my struggle to accept the fact that aging is inevitable, there is a strange sense of optimism that continues to guide me. That’s the one thing I can appreciate over my earlier years. Maybe a new struggle is on the horizon, and as depressing as that sounds, the fighter in me is eager to get started.

Posted: April 25th, 2017
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I’m still alive

Haven’t posted in a while, which means my once a month streak posting on this blog has ended at almost 8 years. But I guess that tells you about how life is for me these days. I’m going to be honest, I’m feeling frustrated and I guess a little burnt out. I haven’t had much time to really withdraw to myself in a while, and I feel like a lot of things in my life are suffering because of it: my penchant for learning, my creative side and just my level of fatigue. I guess I take being an introvert to an extreme.

During this time I’ve decided to take a step back from the guitar for a bit. I’ve read that taking a break as a creative can be a good thing. I haven’t really stopped playing, but I’m not playing as much as I have been in the past. In a way it’s sort of liberating, having that stress of trying to find time to play removed and just focusing on other things that make me happy. So we’ll see how that goes.

Posted: July 31st, 2016
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My Random

All I really want out of life is to engage in what I’m passionate about. Music and sports. My career to an extent. And trying to get better as a person, maybe a little wiser by the end of the day. Sometimes that comes at a price with the relationships I have, but I’ve sort of accepted that possibility. It’ll happen, and I guess going down this path you shouldn’t be afraid of that. But it’s dawning on me that I’m not a young man any more. I’m 29 now, but I still feel – and act – as if I’m 25. Things are changing too fast in this life right now, and I’m not sure what the future’s going to look for me.

Posted: May 15th, 2016
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Excuse the shit post

I knew this year was going to be a year of change – exciting change – but I don’t think I was prepared for the rapid pace in which everything would move.

Posted: April 30th, 2016
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When you’ll hang your things and stay

It’s been a little over a month since I started my new job. A little crazy at first, but I think things are starting to settle down now, which is nice because it feels like I’m always on my feet and never really taking a break at all. And I’m not complaining. It’s what I wanted from what I consider to be an ideal job. I’m still looking for challenges in my life and not really ready to be comfortable just yet. But at the same time, I feel like I can stop flooring the gas pedal for a bit. Not exactly coast, but kind of just focus my energies on other things besides trying to fight it out. I think I got that out of my system, now it’s just time for me to shift gears and try to be better as a person. I’m just glad that I don’t have to worry about my career for a little while.

I guess this is my long winded way of saying, that I feel like I’m in a good place in my life again. Things seem to be working out. And if you asked me a year or two ago whether I would feel this way again, I wouldn’t have believed you. But here we are.

Posted: March 30th, 2016
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Waiting on the day

Unlike years past, I spent my birthday pass with the woman instead. We had a wonderful dinner that she set up, followed by an interesting experience in an Escape Room, which was a first for both of us. We ended the night by indulging in one of her home made cakes that she made, and then fell asleep on the couch soon after. It’s been a strange birthday for me, unusual in of itself because the week leading up to it was surreal. I got an offer to work at a well established organization doing HR work, which only happened after my boss gave her blessing for me to move on – and also offering up a reference. I don’t remember a year where my birthday ended up being this good. But here we are. I feel like a life event like this deserves a more articulate post given the nature of what’s happened, but words sort of escape me in describing just how happy I am.

Posted: February 15th, 2016
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2015

Much like the year before it, 2015 was a weird duck of a year for me. The only difference is from the start it began really well, got even better, then tailed off and sort of nose dived near the end. Now a month into the new year, I’m still not sure what’s going to happen. My work contract is coming up and things remain uncertain for now. I’m still trying to get back on track personally since I started school and – yikes – I’m going to be 29 in less than a week.

This past week hasn’t been the greatest. I was stressed out about work and heading into the weekend I tried to re-orient myself and figure out what I was going to do. But I think going to church today helped. I felt recharged, rejuvenated and ready to face the week ahead. There was a calm that came over me this afternoon, and while it doesn’t do anything for me in terms of the situation, it at least gave me perspective, that whatever happened things were going to be OK. When I look back at 2014, arguably the most tumultuous year of my life, and how I managed to get out of that alive, that yes, things will work out. Maybe not for a while, but that’s OK. In life, sometimes we have to accept that we gotta fight it out for a little while before we reach that point where we don’t have to anymore.

And I’m looking forward to that.

Posted: January 31st, 2016
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Something’s missing

I haven't been feeling like myself these days. Maybe it's the weather, or the Blue Jays playing like dog crap today, but I'm trying to recapture the person that I was earlier this year. I just don't know how. I feel like I'm worrying too much again. Worrying about my career and where it's going and what will become of it down the road. Granted it's only been a month since I started working at my current gig, but there's an uneasiness to all this. Maybe it's because my expectations are so high and that all the sacrifices I've made to get to this point won't amount to anything. I've got a lot of insecurities that I need to keep under wraps, but for now I just need to pray about it and keep moving.

Posted: October 16th, 2015
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From here…

The first week on the job is coming to a close, and so far I'm not as excited nor relaxed as I thought I would be when you land your first job out of school. Maybe it's because this is my second 'first job' out of school and the excitement is gone. Despite the elusiveness that comes with landing on one's own feet, I haven't felt very content. Maybe I expect too much. Maybe I'm taking things for granted again. After all this is supposed to be my foot in the door, and not everyone gets a home run on their first job in their careers. But I don't know. Maybe this is something I should continue to pray for and let the higher powers that be take care of.

Posted: September 10th, 2015
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Hope

Mt. Seymour

I went up to Mt. Seymour at 4 in the morning with Ags and some friends to catch the sunrise this past weekend. It’s been an up and down sort of month for me, but being in the middle of nowhere while seeing life just unfold in front of us re-energized me in a way that I haven’t experience in some time. I woke up today feeling inspired and hopeful with some sense of clarity heading into the week.

Posted: August 24th, 2015
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